Feel bored here in my office then my mind like flying tried to figure out what should I do or what might happen next. Then during my day dreaming suddenly my thought was thinking bout those people which really busy in LOVE MODE. I'm not trying to tease anybody here. Just as a fiction and a lil bit of scientific prove of the process flaw which will happen to anybody include me. I felt funny coz I ever experienced it my self once and still thought it was the funniest part in my life.
The process of falling in love is curiously quite complex. Every love passes through a few stages. Lust is only a passive phenomenon and is just a craving in the relationship. Attraction on the other hand is one of a hell blinding sensation plus when romantic passion comes into action, they often lose their ability to think rationally. Everything just seems so right, perfect and nothing can't stop you from doing anything unless the other half says so. Like the old saying "LOVE IS BLIND" and it's really true where sometime a smelly fart can be smell like an expensive perfumes. "...woooowwieeeee.. apa yang bau wangi nie dear?ko masak ka?". Then they are often oblivious to any flaws in their partner might have. "...eheh..ko putung rambut kan love?". They idealize to each other and can't get them off their minds. "hmmmm..makan nda basah, mandi nda kenyang merindukan dikau" ...hahaha. The overwhelming preoccupation and drive is part of our biology to get Obsessive Compulsive Disorders where caused by low level of "SEROTONIN" in blood. Can't really blame our existence as human.
The attachment or so called commitment stage is LOVE for the duration. They passed the fantasy thingy and are ready to entering the TRUE LOVE MODE. In this stage has to be strong enough to withstand many problems and distractions. Maybe It's a lil uncomfortable for some people where they can't do their ordinary life such; go watch Barcelona(2) Vs. (0)Manchester Utd. with their pals, can't shopping and spend more than RM100, no party, no BBQ, no this, no that, bla... bla... etc... etc... (NOTE: NOT applicable to ALL COUPLE).
Hard to explain when two people in love is similar to drug addiction, compulsive disorders and other mental problems. Scientifically, the Dopamine is thought to be the "pleasure chemical," will produced a feeling of bliss. When high levels of dopamine which associated with the "Norepinephrine", which heightens attention, short-term memory, hyperactivity, sleeplessness and goal-oriented behavior. In other words, couples in this stage of love focus intently on the relationship and often on little else. "Norepinephrine" is similar to adrenaline and produces the racing heart and excitement. The human body releases the cocktail of love rapture only when certain conditions are met and men more readily produce it than women, because of their more visual nature.
So no offence my dear reader. I only killing my time by typing something i fell funny about. To my brother and sister who busy in LOVE SANSATION. Keep on loving your other half and last but not least "PEACE MAY BE WITH YOU".
